Everything You Need to Know About Micro Weddings: The Ultimate Guide

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Let’s be honest—if you’ve dipped a toe into wedding planning lately, you’ve likely heard the term “micro wedding” thrown around. It’s everywhere, and for good reason. While micro weddings aren’t a brand-new trend, they’re definitely having a moment. We're here to spill the tea on why they might just be the perfect fit for you and your partner.

So, What Exactly Is a Micro Wedding?

In the simplest terms, a micro wedding is everything you love about a traditional wedding, but on a smaller scale. Think: intimate, personal, and tailored to you. A micro wedding typically features a guest list of 10-40 people (maximum 50), and that’s it. The vibe? Think cozy, chill, and relaxed, without the stress of managing a 200-person event.

Now, don’t get confused—micro weddings are not the same as elopements. The key difference? A micro wedding still involves your closest friends and family, while an elopement is just you, your partner, an officiant, and maybe a photographer. (And hey, that’s cool too!)

Why Are Micro Weddings So Hot Right Now?

Okay, let’s talk real talk. While social distancing has obviously played a part in the rise of micro weddings, let’s not overlook the perks. For one, they give couples the freedom to break the mold of traditional weddings. Forget about fitting into a one-size-fits-all schedule or trying to please every family member. Micro weddings let you focus on what matters most: YOU.

Want to have a wedding that’s totally you and not just another Pinterest copy-paste job? Micro weddings give you the room to get creative. With fewer guests, you can splurge on the little details—like a custom floral installation, over the top attire or an intimate dinner at a venue you wouldn’t typically be able to afford with 200 people.

Plus, if you and your partner are more on the introverted side (or just want to avoid the overwhelming attention), a smaller wedding could be the best way to feel relaxed and present on your big day. More of your closest people = more of those perfect moments.

Is a Micro Wedding Right for You?

Now, let’s be clear: micro weddings aren’t for everyone. But if you’re a couple that values intimacy over extravagance, freedom over formality, and uniqueness over tradition, then a micro wedding might be your vibe.
These celebrations are perfect for couples who want to ditch the pressure of keeping up with wedding “rules” or trying to please a crowd. Instead, you can throw out the “must-haves” and design a wedding that’s true to who you are. No compromises, no stress—just the day of your dreams.

How Do You Plan a Micro Wedding?

Planning a micro wedding isn’t all that different from planning a larger celebration. 

First step? Find the right venue. You don’t have to book the massive ballroom. Instead, find a location that fits your smaller guest list—bonus points if you can go somewhere totally unique and unexpected. Whether it’s a cozy beachside retreat or a chic urban loft, your options are wide open when you’re working with a smaller crowd. 

Next up: You’ve gotta ask for help. Sure, your wedding is smaller, but that doesn’t mean it’s simple. Planning a micro wedding takes as much attention to detail as a full-on celebration. That’s where we come in. Our Micro Wedding Planning Package is perfect for helping you design your day, recommend amazing vendors, and make sure every detail is spot on.

One of the best parts of planning a micro wedding? Personalization. With fewer guests, you have the luxury of going all-out with thoughtful, meaningful touches. Want to send handwritten notes to each guest or create custom glassware with their names? Go for it. Hand-painting your invitations instead of going with a generic design? Hell yes.

You can even offer personalized gifts or create a custom menu that speaks to your love story. The beauty of a micro wedding is that you can afford to go big on the little things—and trust us, your guests will notice.

The Magic of Personal Touches

If you’ve been dreaming of a wedding that feels authentic to your relationship (and your style), a micro wedding might just be your moment to shine. This is your chance to ditch the white dress if it’s not your style, rock something bold and truly own your celebration.

Remember, you don’t have to follow anyone else’s rules. Your wedding day is about you and your partner. Embrace the flexibility that comes with a micro wedding, and let us help you turn your vision into reality. We’re here to handle the details, so you can enjoy the day you’ve always dreamed of.

Be Bold. Be You.

Ready to make your micro wedding epic in Bend, Oregon or Scottsdale, Arizona or any other dreamy destination? Let’s chat—The Indigo Bride has covered every step of the way. 

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